The Zip Relationship
Girl and her relationship with Zip began to take a more active role in her life and that of the family. Zip even attended a family milestone birthday party and was introduced to cousins and other relatives. At the same time, his role in his department was ending and he would soon be transferring to a new location. It had always been his goal, to move back across the country when he was done his job in the city. There was no wavering, no convincing that this would be taking a step away from the relationship so that he can check something off of a list. He could change his mind, revisit and revise his priorities. Zip was very stubborn and set in his ways. His move would test the relationship to it’s near end.So WHY did Girl always get involved with this type of individual? Because she liked the fact that he had a plan. Zip came to realize that although his plan was old, he could have revised it…..he would have had to face a few issues in changing his course -easier said than done. Now by fulfilling what he said he would do, he would be free to take other steps. Girl knew a lifetime of work would be needed to help him assess and re-assess….and it may even work!